I could have called this article ’10 ways to know that your life is out of gas’ because that is what being at the end of an energy road feels like, a car that has run out of gas and isn’t going anywhere. This just means that the path you are on has no more energy for you and there is no more than can be created in that energetic space because you’re now at a different energy level. If you read my Facebook page, I posted a few days ago that we all assisted in opening and activating an energy portal this week, one that has been around, but dormant, for eons. With this new energy portal we have access to so many new and different frequencies which will make you more aware of the limitations of your current path and realize that so much more is available to you. You’re at the end of your energy road and it’s time to consider changing from unleaded to rocket fuel.
It’s a little like living in a comfortable, ordinary home and visiting a huge mansion, like the Biltmore Estate in Asheville, North Carolina. When you return to your home it suddenly looks very small and not too fancy. When we are faced with new frequencies that can expand our lives in many different ways, our life suddenly looks very small and limited, we see where we can make changes and wonder why we didn’t see these opportunities before. Judgment is not useful here because they were not available to us on our current energy path, but with the new frequencies, new potentials are now possible.
But how do we know that what we are seeing is possible and how can we connect with and manifest it? Are we smart, powerful, gifted, and capable enough to create new possibilities for ourselves? We are if we connect to the new energies but first, we have to disconnect from the energy path that no longer serves us because it doesn’t have the frequency or vibration to allow these new potentials to manifest. Every energetic frequency has a limit to its potential and when you achieve that level, there is no more energy available for you.. It’s the end of the road for that energy and it can no longer serve you as you create new aspects for your life. This also includes relationships, situations, and people in your life too.
Here are the top ten ways you can know that your energy path has reached its limit, the energy in your life no longer serves you, and you’re at the end of one road, ready to embark on another one:
1. You don’t like your life any more, it feels limited and small and you know that something more fulfilling is out there for you, even though you may not know what it is yet.
2. You don’t like what you are doing with your life, which could include your job, your career, your financial situation, your relationships, or where you live. They may be feeling like energy drains too.
3. Things that used to make you happy are now things that you derive no joy from. You may not even be able to remember what being happy feels like.
4. You feel disconnected from the people around you and may not even like them any more (who they are doesn’t matter; this applies to all relationships and people, including family members). They may be avoiding you a little (or a lot), or when you are with them, the conversation feels forced and you have a hard time communicating with them.
5. You feel stuck, unable to move in any direction and you may either want change badly and are willing to move in any direction to make it happen, or are so confused that you can’t consider doing anything right now.
6. You feel unmotivated and have lost your creativity and ambition. Doing even simple, familiar things feels like you’re walking through thick mud.
7. You feel spacey, confused and your thinking is clouded. You have a hard time concentrating and focusing on the smallest things, and it seems to take a long time to get anything done.
8. You spend a lot of time daydreaming about being anywhere else but in your life in this moment.
9. There is a strong temptation to take off, run away, go off to parts unknown and leave your current life to find out what will make you happy.
10. You have the urge to clean up your living space, get rid of things you no longer want, and as you go through your belongings you are surprised at how much you are willing to let go of.
And what’s next? How do you move beyond the lack of motivation and general unhappiness that is overwhelming you now? While it may feel like your worst nightmare, this is actually your most powerful moment because your fear of change may be small in comparison to how much you want change to happen and are willing to allow it. And that is when it can happen. No matter how powerful and promising the energy’s potential, until we realize that the path we are on has no more energy for us and are willing to consider a new one, all of the energy’s potential remains pure potential.
The next step is to consider what action we can take. What have we been attached to that we can now release? What outcomes can we begin to create the foundation for now? Your dreams provide the answers to the question ‘What do I want’, so pay attention to the secret desires you harbor, the things that follow your “I wish..” declarations. We can go from unhappiness and depression to taking inspired action by knowing that when we’re depressed and unhappy, we have come to the end of an energetic path. By following the path of our dreams and hopes, a new path will begin to unfold. And by taking inspired action, we expand the potential of the new energy into the new reality for our life.
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Jennifer,
I’m completely lost in life and becoming more and more frightened all the time.
I have a gf and few friends, I don’t get on with any of them, my job is a complete snooze, it feels like hell, it feels like I’m dragging my self through life and I hate it. I’m getting older and feel worse.
I feel I’ve missed all the opportunities that life had to offer me.
I’m 45 but look young and am in good shape.
I have no kids I’m luck, I have some money, I’m educated, I life pretty well and I feel like the walking dead and that makes me feel guilty on top of everything.
I just hate it all. Life is one huge big long never ending drag.
I know that if I won $100 Million nothing would change, sure I’d have a good year or whatever, but that’s it, my life has no focus or point.
I want to be young and strong and full of stupid hope again. I want to hop out of bed to each day not slide out of in like an invalid.
It’s awful and I know it will get worse and worse until the end, however that may present itself.
You ask a question you already have the answer to Greg. You are less tired of your life than you are of striving for a goal and being disappointed in the outcome. You life is a drag because you expect so much more of life and the results you get. However, it cannot be more than you are willing to put into it. Stop expecting everything to be ‘the one big thing’ and start appreciating the little things. Even the most spectacular fireworks display lasts only a few minutes. Be careful what of what you are setting in motion in your life because if you want reasons to appreciate your life you will get them and they aren’t always pleasant. You feel guilty because you don’t appreciate your life and you are the only one who can change that. Start by doing a little bit each day, just appreciate one thing. Focus every bit of your attention on that one thing and be grateful for it, then move on to the next thing. You haven’t missed anything and that brass ring can come around as often as you want it to, you just have to reach out and grab it the next time.
I feel exactly the same. Everyday feels like Groundhog Day, like life has no point. I feel like the walking dead as well.. Nothing seems to satisfy me for long and focusing on what I’m grateful for only gets me so far until I realize how pointless our existence really is. It’s like someone is playing a cruel joke on us upstairs.
OMG @Wendi this is exactly how I feel! But what to do when you feel like that?? It makes me depressed every single day…
I can totally relate…Buddhist teachings talk about immpernance or the futile nature of our existance, because so many others also saw or felt this. I go to the teaching for comfort at time of hopelessness and can sometime find a thread toward enlightenment, which breaths some freshness into why I’m here.
I have felt like that for a very long time. What my Dad told me ( about the only good advise he ever gave, was simple…. “LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT” If you are not having any emotional issues and are healthy then I see it has being Bored out of you mind. So make your life the way you want it, ( with in reason). Shoot there are alot of experiences ( I KNOW ) in your mind that you would feel like a million bucks when you were done with them. Your just bored and shy about stepping out and testing yourself.Tell you what, when you do it, It will change your life. It will make you feel as tho you are freaken living NOW. Just don’t leave the ones you love behind, offer for them to share. And if they don’t then cool, you will look even more Badass to them when you get done. I know I went thru it too, Skydiving was my first thing. We all go thru it at least you man enough to confront it, God Bless Brother
Depression is an illness brought on by various reasons, inherited or learned, psychologically or physically based, & it is overcome easier by some than others who may be disabled by it for near a lifetime. I’m now 65 & it has been with me from birth, it has kept me from living up to my potential & has made much of my life unfairly & extremely difficult, but I always tried & cared almost too much. Still I made awful mistakes & now feel as though my life is something to be embarrassed of. I can’t go back & do all differently & I still, as usual, feel real sad; I feel mad that so many assumed the worst of me as I really did my best; I never wanted to or was aware of hurting anyone, especially as to how so many hurt me. But, we can’t or shouldn’t go thru life thinking of useless thoughts as it isn’t positive. We can just keep trying to do our best for ourselves & others in all we do, & forgive ourselves for not being perfect. We must show compassion, understanding & kindness to others as it may afford comfort to those who suffer thru no fault of their own, & that act alone may bring comfort to ourselves, & that just might be close to enough. Peace!
I understand that ,I care too much and look at how every move I make effects everyone around me but realise now at age 44 they don’t do the same and I suffer every day for being who I am and wish I wasn’t here to feel this hurt . People tell me I am beautiful but I don’t feel it ! I feel hurt , alone , betrayed and in constant pain caused by comments assuming and flippant comments
More and more, I feel like I have reached a “dead end” in life. Lost my job two years ago and have not been too successful in finding another. Losing hope and thinking my age…58…may be a reason.i cannot change that fact at all. I just do not feel needed, or even wanted. I used to enjoy life but anxiety and worry is an everyday thing.